Relationship Advice: How To Reignite The Spark

A Simple Method to
Jump Start Your Love Life

Want to know how you can reignite the spark in your relationship?

Is your excitement and passion for one another fizzling away?

It’s easy for couples who have been together for a long time to get caught up in routines, and the busyness of life, that they end up neglecting the needs and desires of one another.  Or worse, they end up getting to comfortable and forget about the little things that kept their relationship exciting in the first place.

The “spark” we all feel in the beginning stages of a relationship stems from feeling appreciated, and excited about the uncertainties, challenges, and surprises your partner brings.

Every relationship needs to be revitalized from time to time to keep it fresh.

Here’s my best relationship advice that will help reignite the spark in your love life!

1. Mimic when you first started dating.

Take a trip down memory lane.  Reminiscing about the time when you first starting dating can help to bring back the feelings that you felt at the beginning of your relationship.  In the beginning, you strove to please each other, surprise each other and build a strong foundation for your relationship.  So try to do it all over again!  Instead of doing the exact same thing that you did before, put a twist on it.  If you used to go rock climbing or mountain biking, take up bungee jumping.  Trying new things will not only bring a new level of excitement to your relationship, but it will also help you bond and become closer in a new refreshing way!

2. Tell Him How You Feel

When you are in a long term relationship, it is easy to forget that saying “I love you” is as important as showing your partner how much you love him.  Hearing those three words more often can make big impact in letting your partner know that he is loved more than ever.

3. Put an element of surprise into the relationship.

Do something unexpected!  Whether it’s diving into sports that your partner enjoys, cooking his favorite dish, bonding with him by playing his favorite Xbox game, or being more intimate to spice up your sex life.  By surprising him and genuinely showing interest in the things he really likes and what makes him happy, can help strengthen your bond and remind him that you truly are invested in the relationship.

4. Touch more often.

Touch produces arousal, comfort and support, both physiologically and psychologically.  I am sure you have heard, actions speak louder than words.  When you not only tell someone that you love them, but show them too, it can create a greater sense of satisfaction in an exclusive relationship.  Simple gestures that show them they are loved can go a long way.

5. Always communicate.

Communication is the key to any healthy relationship, and is the best relationship advice, period.  Having a healthy happy relationship starts with understanding each other’s wants, needs, and desires.  Without it, you don’t have a strong foundation to build on.  It’s important to listen attentively to the large and the small, to the funny and the more serious topics.  Make sure your partner is heard.  Communication is key when it comes to trust, security, and love.

6. Reinvent yourself.

Try a new haircut or buy new clothes!  Like we need another excuse to look cute!  But when we feel better about ourselves, our self-confidence naturally eludes positivity that your man will sure take notice.  Self-confidence is sexy!

By having open communication, changing things up, and getting your spark back will take your relationship to new and exciting heights!

Hope this Helps..

Yours for More Confidence, More Often

Kristyn Haster

Kristyn Haster

About the Author

Kristyn Haster

Kristyn Haster is a Lifestyle Blogger, Weight Loss Trainer and Self-Confidence Coach living in Boulder, Colorado. As Editor of (Crazy Confident You) Blog, she helps woman break out of their shells, gain total confidence and fall in love with life again.

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