9 Things Confident Women Do Differently

9 Life Hacks For Women That Want It All 

Have you ever walked down the street and noticed certain women who seem to just have it all together…….their heads held high, eluding this sense of confidence that makes you take notice and wonder (“what’s she doing that I’m not?”)

I sure did…. It’s no secret…confident woman tend to be much more successful in the endeavors they pursue.

They also tend to be much happier and more satisfied with life, in general, than those who lack such self-assurance.

Self-Confidence guides every decision and action you and I take, and these actions will either lead us down a path that’s unfulfilled and unenlightened or one that is filled with love, happiness, purpose and nothing short of incredible.

So just what are some of these ideals and practices Confident Woman weave into their daily routines that most of us (living in a quiet state of destitute are not):

Confident Women:

1. They Focus On What They Can Control.

Instead of spending time thinking about all of the “what-ifs”….what if I screw up or what if I can’t do x, y, z, confident woman shift their attention to the things they can control.  They turn their (can not’s) into can do’s.  Focusing on what you can control gives you the power and confidence to leap through any challenging situation.

2. They Spread Positive Energy.

What goes around comes around.  What you choose to spend your time thinking about and focusing on is the energy you are sending out into the universe.  Like attracts like.  Therefore if you are sending out positivity you will receive positivity in return.  Likewise, if you are sending out negativity you will receive negativity in return.  Confident women focus their attention on spreading positive energy.

3. They Believe Where there’s a Will There’s a Way.

Confident women don’t fold when faced with minor setbacks.  If there’s a roadblock, they will find another way to make it to their destination.  Confident women are resourceful when it comes to what they want.  They seek out help when needed, talk to mentors, improve their skills, and will do whatever it takes to get them to where they want to be.

4. They Take Responsibility for Their Actions.

Confident women do not make excuses for themselves.  They take responsibility for their actions and acknowledge when they screw up!  Hey, nobody’s perfect!  When you make excuses, it’s like handing your power over to another person and saying “You’re in control of my circumstances”.  When we take responsibility for our own actions and outcomes, the power remains with us.

5. They Are Not Afraid of Failure.

Part of learning and growing is putting yourself out there, taking risks, and challenging yourself to do more and be more.  And with that said, there is always a chance of tripping and falling down.  Confident women know that they cannot be the “best” all the time.  They know that if they fall, they are fully capable of picking themselves back up!

6. They Believe in Themselves.

Confident women know who they are, where they’re going and what they believe in.  They are confident in their abilities to go after whatever they want in life.  Confident women do not compromise on their goals, values, or beliefs.  They do not need to seek out validation from others; rather they find satisfaction in knowing who they are and what they stand for.

7. They Practice Self Care.

Confident women know the importance of taking care of themselves.  I’m not talking about vanity here, but rather the significance of self-love and nurturing your emotional, spiritual, and physical wellbeing.  There’s beauty and freedom that comes with having the ability to say no, slow down, take a breath, and find time to reconnect with what’s important to you.  Move your body, eat healthy, and find ways to unite with your higher power.  Taking care of you (your mind, body and spirit) is a highly effective way to feel whole and complete, and able to go about your day confidently moving in the direction of your dreams; all while having the ability to help others do the same along the way!

8. They Nurture Relationships.

Nothing can strip you of your self-confidence more than being judgmental of or competing with others.  If you are constantly putting other people down or competing to be better than everyone else, you will never reach true confidence or happiness.  To truly feel connected to others is a fundamental part of our existence as human beings.  Nurturing your current relationships with both your family and friends is essential to your self-confidence and wellbeing.  Confident women understand the utmost importance of this one.  Find ways to create strong, healthy bonds with those around you.

9. They Love Themselves.

Confident women are comfortable in their own skin.  They do not feel the need to conform to society in order to be happy.  They accept their bodies, their flaws, and their faults (and yes they too have plenty of faults—confident woman just don’t let them stop them or hold them back).  They stay true to their beliefs and their values.  They stand their ground and love themselves for who they are!

Hope This Helps…

Yours For More Confidence, More Often

Kristyn Haster